I'm blessed to have met someone like you, Lemur. Stereotypes got in the way a little at first, and I was wary of you, but I've grown fond of you.
However, through that fondness comes distaste. I can't change your personality, but...
"I realize I'm not endearing myself to you right now, so sorry."
Because you were worried about that before?
But I digress. Your opinion alone would scorch my self-esteem into cinders, but somehow I stand by your side and wish the best for you.
I don't know... I don't ever know.